Nancy’s Nook FAQ

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For over 25 years Nancys Nook has been THE store for couples. We offer only the best clothing, shoes, lingerie, novelties, gag gifts, Leather goods, costumes, movies, and more to add that extra spice to your relationship. Stop into any of our locations 24-7 and experience over 10,000 fun filled items today.

Nancy's Nook has served couples and individuals in Virginia Beach, VA and Columbia, SC for over 25 years, and the questions people ask before their first visit are almost always the same: is it awkward, is it private, and how do I know what to buy? Shopping for lingerie or adult toys doesn't have to be intimidating — a good store makes it comfortable, answers questions without judgment, and helps first-time and experienced shoppers alike find what actually fits their needs. Below are straight answers to the questions we hear most, covering what your visit is really like, how to think about material safety, how to handle sizing when you're buying for a partner, and roughly what to expect to spend. If you don't see your question answered here, reach out directly — with two physical stores and 25 years of experience, we've likely heard it before.

Most first-time visitors worry about this more than they need to. Adult stores like ours are built around helping people comfortably — staff are there to answer questions, not to judge, and browsing at your own pace with no pressure to buy is completely normal.

Yes. In-store shopping is anonymous — there's no membership or sign-in required to browse or buy, and online orders ship in plain, unmarked packaging. 

Look for body-safe materials — medical-grade silicone, glass, and stainless steel are generally considered the safest and easiest to clean. Avoid porous materials if hygiene and longevity matter to you. Our staff can point you toward specific body-safe options in-store.

If you're not sure of her exact size, a well-fitting item she already owns is the best reference — check the tag, or bring a similar piece in with you. Many lingerie styles also run more forgiving than standard clothing sizes, and our staff can help you compare against measurements if you're shopping without her.

Start the conversation outside the bedroom, when you're both relaxed — framing it as something you want to explore together, not a complaint, makes it easier. Browsing our site or visiting the store together is often a low-pressure way to open that conversation naturally.